Cook’s Dating Rule #10: Richard Cook, why do I feel like I’m always being dogged or used in my singleness? You feel used because you gave up the most valuable thing you own. See, if you never gave it up, you would never feel like you lost anything, but because you gave YOU up- you feel like you didn’t get anything face value for it….then your mind feeds your emotions in disarray, and you feel lesser or like you’ve been put on clearance. NOT because of who you are, but because of what you did! It’s our actions that causes us to feel the reaction whether negative or positive. It’s always best to keep your cookies in the Cookie jar, so you never have to feel like someone took the Chocolate Chips out of them and left the Cookie. Granny said, ” They will never buy the Loaf as long as you give them a Slice!” Good Night Family.
Dr. Cook~ Relationship Guru