I’m often amazed at the level of insecurity that dwell in relationships today. I am a firm believer that if your inner fortitude is firm in it’s resolve that no matter who you’re dating, that person should operate in their Own free will. You shouldn’t feel objectionable to who they speak to or who tries to holla at them, because when you know that you’re batting a thousand then if they mess up…..it’s over and it’s time to move on because everyone is expendable. We ought not try to put a muzzle on a mate. Me, personally, I wouldn’t want to date anyone that someone else wouldn’t try to push up on. A dude’s girl just spoke to me and he became belligerent. All she did was speak. If there is a feeling of physical fear and mental fear, then real loyalty has been stripped of the relationship. So, what are you saying Cook? I’m simply saying that when you date, date to build an edifice and not just a building. Because the edifice is wonderful to look at, but a building, to me, people just look at and keep walking. Date with prominence and not problems.