How do I find a Good Man Part 1?

We often find women begging the poignant question, “Where can I find a Good Man?”  I’ve been asked this question hundreds of times, yet it seems that my answers have fallen on deaf ears most often.  Because no matter how we look at it, in our society today, women have fallen below the radar of either Dummying Down their Principles to accommodate their PASSION for Love or they have Erased their Principles all together, because they have accepted whatever comes their way in order to overcome the Absence of Love in their life.  Ladies, in order to find a good man you have to let your Purpose supersede your Prejudices.  Too often, women say that they want the adjective “Good”, but they want that “Good” to be packaged in a certain embodiment, but sometimes you can’t have both. You have to want the man who wants for you what GOD wants for you.  It’s either you want Love, or you want Lust.  You either want a Good man, or a Good looking man with horrible values.  Tell me?  Societal values and images, has shaped your Likes and Wants, but your Spirit is saying something different.  You have to rid yourself of your prejudices and what you THINK IS YOUR TYPE.  For example, I remember pursuing this lady.  Too me, she was everything.  Her personality, spirit, swag were altogether.  I tried to take her out on several occasions, but she kept denying me.  I later saw her with this guy I knew who had no job, no car, no job, abusive, disrespectful, and no hygiene.  For the life of me, I was perplexed, because I couldn’t imagine how he got her and I didn’t.  He abused her, etc.  She told me that she only dated Chocolate guys, and I was too light skinned.  So, it’s not that there aren’t any good men; it’s just that  your Prejudices outweigh your Purpose. No more Stereotyping and just flow in your purpose.  You may have met your husband a million times, but your Prejudices made you overlook him….Part 2 coming tomorrow “What is your type?”

Richard T. Cook

About Richard T. Cook

Richard Cook is a Certified Professional Life Coach, Motivational Speaker, Minister, Teacher, and Servant.

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