People only know as much as we tell them about us, and everything else is pure speculation. So, its the information that we provide to them, that can be used against us at the weakest moment in THEIR life as it pertains to us. When hurt people want to hurt people, they will instinctively use your mistakes, failures, and sins against you. In other words, people only use weapons when they feel helpless and their target tends to be the person they know the worst thing about but is CLOSE TOO; because, what they know about us tends to be the weakness that they see in us or we have opened up for them to See. Never let people measure you with your own ruler, because most times, they ONLY know the information you provided. ..everything else is Pure Speculation! Don’t Give them the Book to your Flaws.