Why Do They Try Us

Oftentimes,  we find ourselves in awkward positions. We find ourselves in the midst of persons saying the wrong thing to us, trying our character,  or trying to call us out on something.  For example, you might be having the best day of your life and here goes a family member sending you an accusing text.  You could be trying your best at being a better person and a friend says something slick or ignorant to you, not realizing you would have cussed them out before but you’re trying to maintain your composure.  Folk try you and you don’t know why? I dealt with that for years.  Wondering why folk always want to try me?  What is it about me that would make someone try me? I’m the nicest person in the world, so why me? I went to several people, and they all gave me a different answer, which led me to believe that, oftentimes it’s not me, but it’s them.  We have to understand that there are more people with Issues, Low self-esteem,  inferiority complexes,  etc. in the world than secure people,  and if we wreck our minds about why they try us; then we ourselves will go crazy.  Stop worrying about why they are trying you, and be glad about it.  The truth be told, there must be some type of Gold or Platinum that you have in your core that would make them try to reduce you.  People never attack a bum, or a peddler. ….they only attack people going somewhere. You’re going somewhere my friend.   Please, Please, Make sure you listen more than you talk , so you can see the caliber of person you’re dealing with and you can know how to effectively deal with them in the future……No more Worrying. ..Just flow in your anointing.


Richard T. Cook

About Richard T. Cook

Richard Cook is a Certified Professional Life Coach, Motivational Speaker, Minister, Teacher, and Servant.

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